I’m not the most positive person in the world. In fact, I tend to see the worst in every situation before seeing the good. Part of me wants to tell you that I’m simply being realistic, that by looking at the worst case scenario I can prepare for it.
But let’s face it: Always looking at the worst case scenario can be crippling.
It can keep you from moving forward. And leave you trapped in your current situation with nowhere to turn too.
My partner is the polar opposite of me. He’s the kind of person that could stand in the middle of a complete disaster and find something to be thankful for. Believe me, as endearing as it seems it can also be infuriating!
But the truth is that his positive outlook on life has kept me sane more times than I can count. And has thought me that sometimes focusing on the positive can be just what you need to do to keep moving forward.
Here’s what I learned about focusing on the positive from my VERY positive partner:
There’s always a solution.
No matter how bleak the current state of things may seem it’s probably not as bad as you think it is. Things have a way of figuring themselves out and if you can find it in yourself to trust in that, then you can focus your energy on finding a solution.
You don’t need all of that to be happy.
In today’s world, we’re surrounded by a lot of stuff. And sometimes we might begin to believe that we need all of that to be happy, but that’s a lie. The truth is that we don’t need all those things to be happy. You can find happiness in the simplest of things and those are the moments you need to strive for.
If everything else fails you can always go back.
No matter what the adventure you’re currently undertaking is, you can always go back. You can go back to the office job, you can come home early. You can always return to your safe zone if your adventure doesn’t work out. But if you never leave your safe zone, you’ll never live!
And most important: It will probably be fine!
Most of the things you worry about will never happen, most of the problems you imagine will never come true. So remember this quote by Mark Twain and relax!
“I’ve had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened.” – Mark Twain
I’m lucky to have a man in my life that keeps me positive. But staying positive is important for everyone, so tell me what keeps you positive?